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Healing the Foundations: How Childhood Models Shape Adult Relationships

Healing: A KnuStart Growth Series: Rewriting Your Relationship Blueprint in marriage. The Pattern You Didn't Choose Sarah sat across from her partner, arms crossed, jaw tight. Another argument about nothing—or everything. Later that night, alone in the quiet, she recognized the posture. It was her mother's. The silence that followed loud voices. The withdrawal that felt safer than vulnerability. She hadn't chosen this pattern. But somewhere along the way, it had chosen her. I

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6 days ago5 min read

Making the First Incision: How to Start the Conversations That Heal -A KnuStart Guide to Surgical Precision in Communication

Start conversations that heal and not hurt. "Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses." - Proverbs 27:5-6 The Moment Before the Cut There's a sacred pause in every operating room—that moment right before the surgeon makes the first incision. The patient lies vulnerable under anesthesia. The team is positioned. The instruments are ready. Everything that happens next depends on this crucial first cut. Make it t

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Nov 17, 202514 min read

"The Relationship X-Ray: What You Need to See Before 'I Do'"

Before you say "I Do," are you really seeing what's beneath the surface of your relationship? Many couples only get a "photo" when they need an "X-ray." What's one area you've been hesitant to explore deeply with your partner before marriage?